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Being 'Too Nice' To Women, Not Understanding Attraction,
And Feeling That Frustration
That Drives Us Guys Crazy...
By David DeAngelo
This time I'm=2 0going to “mix it up” a little...
I get a lot of questions like the three that
you're about to read.
A LOT of them.
In fact, I get so many HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS
of them emailed to me that I'm beginning to
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realize that I need to write another newsletter
about this particular topic... even though I've
written about ten billion of them now.
Read these emails... and nod your head if you've
found yourself in a similar situation:
***QUESTION #1***
Dave-
I've been receiving your newsletters and although
I'm a little=2 0skeptical, I thought I'd ask you a
question. I live in Las Vegas where I attend UNLV
(I'm in a fraternity), play in a kick-ass rock
band, AND work as a bouncer in a nightclub on the
Strip. Now, given my situation, one would think
that I'm just ROLLING in women, yet the only game
I get is from older chicks and gay dudes. And
when I do go out with hotties, I can't get them
to call me back; girls my age just aren't
attracted to me like they used to be. I'm smart,
funny, I make decent cash, drive a nice car and
all my "friend-girls" constantly tell me how
hot I am. What the hell am I doing wrong?
Sincerely,
A.P.
***QUESTION #2***
I recently had surgery and during that time a
female "surgical consultant" gave me guidelines
of what the surgery would be like and how to
prepare for it. In a nutshell, she was really
hot. The problem is we have talked on the phone
about the surgery and the results and finances
with insurance. The problem is that it's only
been on a professional level. She is fairly
friendly, she doesn't avoid my calls, and she
doesn't try to get off the phone quickly.
So I had her business card and I recently wrote
her an email , to her WORK email address, on
Friday and said thanks for all the help and
asked her out20for coffee a nd she emailed me back
right away and said that "I am too nice"20and
totally avoided answering the "coffee" date. So
I emailed her back that same Friday and said
that "you totally avoided the coffee question."
Today's Monday and she since hasn't replied to
my email about going out for coffee. I feel like
writing her back instead of waiting for her
reply. Is this a sign that she is not interested
in me? What do I do? How do I get her to at
least go out for coffee with me. If she does go
out for coffee with me, how do I keep her
interested in me? You are my last resort for
advice. If your advice works, then I am
definitely going to buy your programs. Please
help!
A.S.
Los Angeles
***QUESTION #3***
I am recently divorced and am 32 years old.
Haven't dated since I was 21. So I have just
kind of thrown myself back out there. A friend
of mine told me about you and this newsletter
so I started reading it=2 0and am fascinated by
your advice. I have always been the nice guy-
ready with an honest compliment and holding the
door etc. Its not an act - its just how I am.
But I seem to be sensing a problem with this...
With my friends and gal pals I get the "you're
too nice"=2 0comment all the time. I am still
trying to=2 0figure out how you can be too nice.
How can you be too much of a gentleman? Is
this truly something that can kind of trip you
up dating these days, if you are like me?
Thanks
DK - Denver, Colorado
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It's interesting for me to read questions like
these.
The FIRST thing that pops into my mind when I
see a question like this one is:
“He doesn't get it.”
That's it.
He doesn't get it.
Now, I guess it's probably obvious that a guy
who writes me “doesn't get” SOMETHING.
If he did, he wouldn't write in for help.
I know, I know. I'm a logical genius.
Shut up.
But stay with me here...
The three guys who wrote in above all have
VERY different situations.
&l t;span class=indent>But I really believe that they all have the
same basic PROBLEM.
They're running up against totally different
challenges, but I believe that if they all
understood a few keys about women and
ATTRACTION, everything would change for EACH
of them.
So let 's talk about those key things.
Here are a few of my key ideas:
1) ATTRACTION Isn't A Choice.
2) Women don't feel ATTRACTION for “nice”
guys who kiss up to them.
3) If you don't GET how ATTRACTION works, then
it almost doesn't matter WHAT you do. Nothing
will work.
4) If you DO get how ATTRACTION works, then
you can do almost ANYTHING, and it will work
for you.
Let's take 'em one at a time...
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE
Women don't “choose” to feel ATTRACTION.
BANG! It just happens.
And let me ask you something.&l t;br> Do you think that the mechanism that causes
women to feel ATTRACTION... the one that
has evolved over millions of years... before
language, before MTV, before you learned how
to kiss women's asses... is LOGICAL?
ere's a hint:
No.
The bottom line is that if you interact with
a woman long enough that she forms an
“impression” of you, and she doesn't “feel
it” for you, then you're done.
It's over.
And no a mount of chasing her around, buying
her things, and being “nice” is going to do
the trick.
It's NOT a CHOICE, man!
WOMEN DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR
“NICE” GUYS WHO KISS UP TO THEM
Remember the guy above who asked the question
“How can you be too nice?”.
Answer:
You already know... DUH.
Now I'm going to ask YOU a question...
;WHY are you BEING nice in the FIRST place?
Right, right.
It's because you WANT something.
“Oh, no”, you argue...
“It's because I'm a NICE GUY.”
Or maybe you think that you were born this
way... to be “nice”.
Or maybe you've even convinced yourself that
it's the “right” thing to do.
Well, it's really pretty funny that the
answer is staring you right in the face.
You keep proving to yourself over and over
and OVER again that NICE DOESN'T WORK.
By the way, I love it when guys write in
to me and say “I don't want to use the things
you teach because I don't like the idea of
MANIPULATI NG women”.
Then I ask “Do you buy women dinner, or take
them out?”.
Of course, the answer is always “Yes”.
I ask “Why?”.
But I already know the answer...
IT'S TO MANIPULATE WOMEN.
Yep. And then the same guy says “Yea, but
THAT'S DIFFERENT”.
OK, before I get too far off track here,
let's just summarize and say that it is
EASY to be "“too nice”.
And it REALLY screws up your chances with
women when you are.
Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.
“Overly nice” equals “Wussy”.
Remember that.
IF YOU DON'T “GET” HOW ATTRACTION
WORKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT
YOU DO. NOTHING WILL WORK.
Think about the concept of ATTRACTION
for a moment.
What is it?
Is it important?
Is it the same for men and women?
Do you KNOW how it works for women?
Have you ever taken the time to LEARN
how it works for women?
Have you ever CARED how it works fo r women?
Are you guilty of spending more time thinking
about what you're going to leave on your
outgoing voicemail message than thinking
about this topic?
Well, let's get something straight...
MOST men, and I'm talking about 95% of them,
have NO IDEA how or why women feel that
amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some
0A
men.
And if they DO have an idea, it's usually
DEAD WRONG.
All most guys know is that women don't feel
ATTRACTION for THEM.
It's obvious that our three poster children
above haven't a clue about how and why women
feel ATTRACTION.
Read their emails again right now.
You'll get what I'm talking about.
Notice something about these emails.
Notice that they all seem to be focusing on
what they're DOING, rather than what they
KNOW.
“I'm in a rock band and I'm a bouncer at a
hot club... but that doesn't work...”
“I sent her an email, but that didn't
work...”
“I'm a nice guy, but that doesn't work...”
Can you see it?
THEY DON'T GET IT.
If they did, their emails would be tota lly
different.
IF YOU DO GET HOW ATTRACTION WORKS
THEN ALMOST ANYTHING WILL WORK...
Here's the interesting part of all of this.
If you will take the time to LEARN how and
why women feel that interesting and magical
emotional response called ATTRACTION for
some rare men, and not for ALL THE OTHER
men running around, then EVERYTHING changes.
Here are a few interesting points...
There are a few physical cues, or specific
types of “body language” that instantly
tell a woman whether or not you're a guy
that is even worth a SECOND GLANCE...
If you don't know what these things are,
and how to use them, then the game will be
over before it has even started.<br&g t; Scary.
Women test men CONSTANTLY.
0D
And ATTRACTIVE women test men MUCH MORE
INTENSELY than “regular” women.
If you don't know how to spot these tests
(and most of them are very subtle), and
then deal with them, you're going to lose
your chance to create ATTRACTION before you
even GET it.
Being “nice” isn't the way.
If you want to chase a woman around for six
months, buy her tons of gifts, take her on
a b unch of expensive dates, and HOPE for a
chance to have her as your girlfriend, then
keep doing what you've always done.
This is the PRIMARY way that men approach
the topic of “women and dating”.
I'd say that, on average, if you're REALLY
REALLY NICE, and you buy her lots of
extra-nice stuff, and take a woman on at
least 20 dates over a 3-month time period,
that you'll have about a 10% chance of=2 0her
“falling for you”.
That's just a guess.
But it's probably pretty accurate.
On the OTHER hand, if you want to be the
kind of guy that has women FLIRTING with
you within MINUTES of talking to them,
then you're going to need to do something
else ENTIRELY.
And if you want to be the kind of guy that
actually has so many options, so many dates,
and so many women interested in him that
you just can't take all their calls, then
you're going to need a COMPLETE OVERHALL
in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.
Yes, it can be done, but “nice” isn't the
way to do it.
Here's the irony:
Women DON'T WANT WUSSIES!
No no no!
Women are looking for MEN.
You know, a MAN? ; I have a theory...
I think so many women are turning into
lesbians because even WOMEN have more balls
these days than most men.
You probably think I'm joking...
OK, so what should us guys do to:
0D
;1) Stop being “too nice”...
2) Learn how ATTRACTION works for women...
3) Meet and date more women successfully...
NOW THOSE are some GREAT questions!
Step 1 is to OPEN YOUR MIND to a new way of
seeing things.
I watched guy who were REALLY successful with
women for a LONG TIME... with my OWN TWO
EYES... before I started to actually SEE
what was going on.
And at first it just plain didn't make sense
AT ALL.
But once I began to understand it, everything
came together in a “blinding flash of the
obvious”.
Next, you need to realize that “nice” and
ATTRACTION are two different things.
And they're NOT related.
Finally, you need to GET AN EDUCATION about
this topic.
It amazes me that a man will go to college,
spend a hundred grand OR MORE, and feel
satisfied walking=2 0out of that educational
experience STILL not having learned how20to
be successful with women.
Amazing.
It amazes me EVEN MORE that guys don't make
the decision to actually LEARN this stuff.
Blows my mind.
Now, I've spent OVER five years working on this
particular topic.
It took me a good 2+ years just to BEGIN to
get a handle on what was going on.
It took me another year or so, AFTER I started
to understand, to actually get GOOD.
After all that, I spent quite a bit of time
writing notes to myself, discussing the
techniques that I've learned and created, and
putting it all together.
What's the result?
Well, now I have several great programs that
I've designed to help teach guys how to meet
and date women successfully.
And my stuff doesn't just focus on “what” to
do. It ALSO focuses on THE WHY, and the WHEN,
and the HOW.
In my eBook, “Double Your Dating”, I spend
several dozen pages on this topic of
ATTRACTION... how20it developed, how it works,
and how to understand it.
I get TONS of email from guys who say “Wow,
this really opened my eyes and gave me a
totally new pe rspective... and THAT is the
thing that has made the difference”.
Of course, I also teach DOZENS of amazing
techniques for everything from approaching
women to getting numbers to taking things to
a “physical” level.
The eBook is a complete education. Check
it out here:
When you follow that link, you'll also be able
to sign up for my FREE Dating Tips Newsletter...
which is packed with even more great secrets.
I recommend that you take advantage of these
resources.
I've put a lot of time, effort, and energy into
them, and this is the first time in HISTORY that
something quite like this has been available.
Go check them out.
&nbs p;
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
David DeAngelo is the author of “Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women”& lt;/span>, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.
Reiki Master Teacher class Final Certification Course
USUI SYSTEM OF NATURAL HEALING
You must have have completed Reiki A.R.T - Master Practitioner One day intensive
Date: Saturday, July 25th 2009
Time: 10:00AM - 6:00PM
Cost: $325
Location: The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store, 1939 Bennett Road, Victor, NY 14564
call: 585-349-3400 or 607-522-4568 barbara.carlton@earthlink.net www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
BARBARA CARLTON IS CERTIFIED AS REIKI PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER OF THE ‘USUI SYSTEM OF NATURAL HEALING’ BY ELSPETH WALKER, EDINBURGH, SCOTLAND. AND WALID GONHEIM, CAIRO, EGYPT. TAUGHT AND CERTIFIED AS KARUNA REIKI® PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER BY WILLIAM RAND, FOUNDER OF KARUNA REIKI AND DIRECTOR OF ‘THE INTERNATIONAL CENTER FOR REIKI TRAINING’, ‘ICRT’ ATTUNED IN GLASTONBURY AND STONEHENGE, ENGLAND. REGISTRATION #84288
BARBARA TEACHES TO THEIR STANDARDS AND GUIDELINES.
BARBARA IS ALSO CERTIFIED AND REGISTERED BY ‘THE INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REIKI PRACTITIONERS ‘ IARP’. USA.
• Registration
• Smudging (optional).
• Introductions (for new people joining class only - Name, work, family, metaphysical background, understanding of Reiki, why you want to learn Reiki, and something you like about yourself.
• Explanation what the class will include for the day, and which parts are from Usui system, and which parts are from the Center for Reiki Training research and development.
• Review or explain the Hui Yin exercise
• Explaining Violet Flame
• Tibetan Symbols -Show them to students, explain usage, practice drawing them.
• Test on symbol
• Explain how attunement works.
• Meditation
• Reiki Master Teacher Attunement. Do Gassho before and during attunement.
• Write in notebook about attunement and meditation if you want - then share if you want.
• Violet Breath - Explain, demonstrate, have students practice.
• Healing Attunement - Explain, demonstrate and have students practice.
• Practice Attuning others
. Receive RMT Certificate and Manual. The Reiki Healing Center will continue to support you on your journey.
Six month later you have the option to add Karuna Reiki level I, II or Master Teacher. Ask for details.
The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store,
85 South Union Street, Spencerport, NY 14559 call: 585 349-3400 www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
Barbara Carlton is a Licensed Reiki Master&Teacher, Registered Karuna Reiki® Master&Teacher Reg.#84288
Karuna Reiki® is a registered trademark of the International Center for Reiki Training, Inc.
Registered with: INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REIKI PRACTITIONERS IARP
Date: Tuesday, July 28th, 2009
Time: 10:00AM - 6:00PM
Cost: $200
Location: The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store, 1939 Bennett road, Victor, NY 14564
call: 585-349-3400 or 607-522-4568 barbara.carlton@earthlink.net www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
The Karuna® Reiki Class is for anyone who has had Reiki Master training. It is complete with two levels, two attunements, four master symbols and eight treatment symbols. This system has been taught since 1994 and has been found to be effective and powerful. In fact, most students find it more powerful than Usui Reiki! The energy has a more definite feeling to it. It works on the emotional and spiritual levels and also can help one become more grounded. Those who receive the attunements report experiences with their guides, angels, and higher self and feel the healing presence of other enlightened beings.
The first symbol prepares the client for deep healing and is useful with past life issues. It helps release karma and deeply seated issues on the cellular level. The second symbol heals deeply and can be used to breakup the negative patterns we unconsciously use to insulate ourselves from the truth, thus shattering delusion and denial. It heals the shadow self. The third symbol fills the person with love and restores balance. The fourth symbol completes the treatment by bringing the client back into the body and grounding. The Karuna II symbols are of a higher vibration and more powerful. They help connect directly with the Higher Self and work on a deeper level. While they have specific purposes discussed in class, the experience of their energy allows intuitive guidance in their use.
Both levels of Karuna Reiki® and both attunements will be given as well as instruction and practice on the use of all eight symbols. You will be able to use these tools for healing. To teach all levels of Karuna Reiki®, two practitioner levels and two master levels you must be a Reiki Master and Teacher and take level III and level IIII (1day) training.
Come network with other Reiki Masters. This exciting workshop with lots of dedicated, high energy people. A certificate and a 45 page manual is included with in depth descriptions of each symbol and each attunement process.
You will also be offered the opportunity to become a "Registered Karuna Reiki® Master" with The International Center for Reiki Training. You will then be able to use our manuals and your student certificates will come from the Center. If you would like more information on becoming this process, please contact us.
Pre-requisite: Six months after your Reiki Master Attunement and experience with the RM symbol.
Please call if you are interested in a class. We put you on our waiting list and inform you of our next dates.
You can take one class a time and whenever you feel ready you can take the next.
KARUNA I Class $200. KARUNA II $200 (less 10%) KARUNA MASTER/TEACHER $400 (less 10%)
Barbara Carlton is a Licensed Reiki Master&Teacher, of the Usui System of Natural Healing.
Registered Karuna Reiki® Master&Teacher Reg KR#83029/84288
Karuna Reiki® is a registered trademark of the International Center for Reiki Training, Inc.
Barbara is also registered with: INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REIKI PRACTITIONERS IARP
Barbara was trained and attuned to Karuna Reiki in Glastonbury /Stonehenge, England by: William Rand in 2002.
It is ideal for all ages because in the process of learning Reiki, they learn about their bodies, their inner spirit, their personal power and their connection to the universal Life force which surrounds us all and is universal love.
Reiki Teenagers was created to provide information for teenagers interested in learning about Reiki, and honoring their uniqueness. We offer encouragement and support on their journey; it is always good if the parent can give their support as well.
The Reiki Healing Center, Rev Barbara Carlton, Reiki and Karuna Reiki Master and Teacher is teaching and attuning children to Reiki I. The Center is affiliating with the International Center for Reiki Training, we teach to their standards.
Reiki for Teenagers 14-17 Thursday July 23rd 2009 TIME: 11-4PM FEE: $85
DATE: call for the next date or see classs list.
We have an ongoing support group.
Reiki I certification course. You will receive Certificate and Manual.
With Reiki Masters Barbara Carlton Rev, Reiki Practitioner Tomasz Matraszek.
In this workshop teenagers will get in touch with subtle energy and learn simple methods of using Reiki. This course is designed to be fun and interesting for children who have an awareness of their energetic being and would like to spend time in a nurturing, supportive atmosphere which allows them to explore their innate potential. Children have a natural awareness of healing energy and often can see it. They are very close to the flow of life.
In this class we honor their unique perspectives and present Reiki in a way they can understand.
• INTRO TO YOUR BODY AND ITS ENERGY CENTERS
• INTRO TO CHAKRA SYSTEM AND AURA
• UNDERSTAND HOW CRYSTALS, COLOR AND SOUND AFFECT YOUR HEALTH
• SHORT HISTORY OF REIKI AND ENERGY WORK
• SENSING THE ENERGY FIELD
• REIKI I ATTUNEMENT
• MEDITATION
• HEALING YOURSELF, OTHERS, PLANTS AND ANIMALS.
Cost: $85 includes all classes, Reiki Certificate, Reiki Manual and all materials.
We will have a few snacks available but please bring your own packed lunch.
The Reiki Healing Center offers ongoing support and we have a Support Group.
CLASSES MUST BE BOOKED AND PAID IN ADVANCE..
It is ideal for children because in the process of learning Reiki, they learn about their inner healing energy, about their bodies energy fields, their inner spirit, their personal power and their connection to the universal Life force which surrounds us all and is universal love.
Reiki Kids was created to provide information for children interested in learning about Reiki, and for their parents in hope that they offer encouragement and support on their child’s journey. Many of today’s children are crystal or indigo children.
The Reiki Healing Center, Rev Barbara Carlton, Reiki and Karuna Reiki Master and Teacher is teaching and attuning children to Reiki and support is ongoing.
The Center is affiliating with the Reiki Kids center in Canada who has been teaching children for years now. We teach to their standards and also are using their Reiki Kids manual.
Reiki for Children
With Reiki Master/Teacher Barbara Carlton and Tomasz Matraszek
Date: Monday, July 27th
Time: 11-3PM,
Cost: $65 (Sibling Discount 10%)off
Location: The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store, 1939 Bennett Road, Victor, NY 14564
Age Group: 6 to 14 years/ We also offer classes for teenagers. Pre-registration is required.
In this workshop the children will get in touch with subtle energy and learn simple methods of using Reiki. This course is designed to be fun and interesting for children who have an awareness of their energetic being and would like to spend time in a nurturing, supportive atmosphere which allows them to explore their innate potential. Children have a natural awareness of healing energy and often can see it. They are very close to the flow of life.
In this class we honor their unique perspectives and present Reiki in a way they can understand.
• SHORT HISTORY OF REIKI
• SENSING ENERGY FIELDS
• MEDITATION
• HEALING PLANTS, ANIMALS AND PEOPLE
Cost: $65 includes class, Reiki Certificate, Reiki Kid Book and all materials.
The Reiki Healing Center offers ongoing support.
The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store, 1939 Bennett Road, Victor, NY 14564
Call: 585.349.3400, or 607.522.4568 babara.carlton@earthlink.net www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
Level II Certification Course.
Practitioner level
USUI SYSTEM OF NATURAL HEALING
You must have have completed Reiki I
DATE: Saturday & Sunday July 11 & 12th 2009 taught over 2 days. Sat: 10AM-5PM, Sun:10AM-6PM
You may also choose to attend only day 1 and day 2 later if you have time restrictions.
BARBARA CARLTON Rev. IS CERTIFIED AS REIKI PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER OF THE ‘USUI SYSTEM OF NATURAL HEALING’ BY ELSPETH WALKER, EDINBURGH, SCOTLAND. AND WALID GONHEIM, CAIRO, EGYPT.
TAUGHT AND CERTIFIED AS KARUNA REIKI® PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER BY WILLIAM RAND, FOUNDER OF KARUNA REIKI AND DIRECTOR OF ‘THE INTERNATIONAL CENTER FOR REIKI TRAINING’, ‘ICRT’ ATTUNED IN GLASTONBURY AND STONEHENGE, ENGLAND. REGISTRATION #83029/84288
BARBARA TEACHES TO THEIR STANDARDS AND GUIDELINES.
BARBARA IS ALSO CERTIFIED AND REGISTERED BY ‘THE INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REIKI PRACTITIONERS ‘ IARP’. USA.
• Mini Refresher of Reiki I
• Description of all symbols, including how to draw them, their meaning,
and when and how to use them.
• The students are encouraged to memorize the symbols and a test is given
• Guided meditation
• Reiki II attunement
• Practice time to use symbols to experience the different energies
• How to use crystals to increase the Reiki energy
• How to set up a Crystal Grid for Healing
• How to use color, sound and aroma oils and more to increase healing
• Distant Healing
• Japanese Reiki Techniques
• Receive and give one Reiki treatment using the symbols
• Activates another 21 days of chakra cleanse
• Receive information on setting up a Reiki practice
Receive the official: International Center for Reiki Training First and Second Degree Reiki Manual. Receive Reiki Practitioner Certificate.
$250 Some discounts apply, please enquire. Students and Center students will receive 10% discount.
Registration requires a $100 deposit which is non-refundable.
Our on-going Reiki Support Group gives continued support, you meet others to give and receive Reiki and help you on your journey.
The Reiki Healing Center, 1939 Bennett Road, Victor, NY 14564
call: 585 349-3400 or 607-522-4568
barbara.carlton@earthlink.net www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
ask for our REIKI OR KARUNA REIKI SPONSORSHIPS
Call to receive out booking form.
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The main goal of the course is to give students the chance to develop their composition skills through the study and application of music theory.
This includes developing part-writing skills, the study of basic musical structures(sonata form, song form, phrase structure, ect.) , melodic writing, basic harmonic progression, and active listening to music of various styles.
-The classes will last for two weeks or 8-10, 45 minute lessons, and is a total of $80 for the entire two week seminar.
contact info.
-instructor- Sam Ferris Morris (Bachelor in Music Composition from Heidelberg University, tiffin, oh)- Iv studied composition and piano with Dr. Brian Bevelander, and Dr. Mark Olivieri for the last 5 years. I have writen and performed works for mediums including, SATB Choir, solo piano, piano four hands, Violin duets, violin piano, 4 channel electroacoustic music, piano and voice, and solo violin.
-i can be reached at
-sammusic715@gmail.com
-cell-585 233-2490
No attachment on this one.
Stories
I'm 13 years old, and I wished
that my dad would come home from
the army, because he'd been having
problems with his heart and right
leg. It was 2:53 p.m . When I made
my wish. At 3:07 p.m. (14 minutes
later), the doorbell rang, and
there my Dad was, luggage and all!!
I'm Katie and I'm 20 and I've been
having trouble in my job and on the
verge of quitting. I made a simple
wish that my boss would get a new
job. That was at 1:35 and at 2:55
there was an announcement that he
was promoted and was leaving for
another city. Believe me...this
really works!!!
My name is Ann and I am 45 years
of age. I had always been single
and had been hoping to get into a
nice, loving relationship for many
years. While kind of daydreaming
(and right after receiving this email)
I wished that a quality person would
finally come into my life. That was at
9:10 AM on a Tuesday. At 9:55 AM
a FedEx delivery man came into my
office.He was cute, polite and
could not stop smiling at me. He
started coming back almost everyday
(even without packages) and asked me
out a week later. We married 6
months later and now have been
happily married for 2 years.
What a great email it was!!
Just scroll down to the end, but
while you do, think of a wish.
This summer is our 15th year bringing quality dance camps to the
Rochester area. New for this summer we have more camps, more locations
and more exciting themes which promises a fun-filled time! Choose from
our Fairport studio or Harley location. Each week is something new...
Performance Camp, Rock and Roll Camp, and Stars of Dance Camp. We
offer camps for ages 3-12.
Please register this week if possible!!
About the class
The voice is the creative center of our being and reflects our inner thoughts, feelings, and histories. It
is also a vehicle for wellness, healing, and transformation. Discover exercises, techniques,
improvisations, and songs to unlock your vocal potential and creativity through group singing
experiences. Progressive relaxation, autogenic training, chakra balancing, and instrument
improvisation experiences will also be explored. Participants will learn how to use the voice and
music to combat anxiety, manage pain, and deal with other stress related issues in order to advance
one’s wellness and unite mind, body, and spirit. All voices welcome, no written music will be used!
You can register on the web at http://500.proformretirement.com
If you can also email me if you would like more information at proformretirement@gmail.com
Join a yoga class that helps you manage the ups and downs of mood through holistic and non-invasive means. There are two classes taking place:
Thursday, July 9, 5:30-7pm in Pittsford
and
Saturday, July 11, 10:30am-12 in Fairport
Scott Gallagher Director of Mindpeace, provides one on one Life Coaching Sessions as well as Dynamic Energy Sessions.
Some of his Energy Therapies include several different styles of Reiki. He also uses Crystal Cylinder Therapy, Integrated Energy Therapy, as well as Body Alignment Healing.
Scott is a Holistic Psychologist/Counselor, Personal Transformational Specialist, Trainer in the field of Mind Potential,
Teacher, and Keynote Speaker.
He has been trained in a variety of Healing and Energy techniques designed to bring understanding to your life.
Individual, Couple, Family, and group sessions are available.
Guided meditations given by Scott Gallagher
Director of Mindpeace, Holistic Psychologist/Counselor
Personal Transformational Specialist, Trainer in the field of Mind Potential,
Regression Therapy, RM/T, KRM/T, I.E.T. and Keynote Speaker
WEDNESDAY NIGHTS 7 P.M. @
THE FOUNDATION FOR MINDPEACE
Bring a friend, mat or cushion. Chairs will be provided.
Suggested Foundation donation is $10.00
Contact Mindpeace at (585)-478-1301 for directions
5 Day Intensive Seminar Onondaga School of Therapeutic Massage
Dates: September 9-13, 2009 302 North Goodman Street, Suite 200
Times: Wed. Registration at noon- Class at 1pm Rochester, NY 14607
Thurs-Sun: 9:00am-6:00pm 585-241-0070 www.massage-school.com
Advanced and extensive hands on training addressing the entire body and covering sports massage and sports medicine. Some seminars are linked to an international sporting event. Completion of this seminar places you on a list of preferred practitioners recognized in treating chronic pain and orthopedic injuries. This list is accessible on our website to hospitals, sports medicine centers, professional sports teams and other health care practitioners. (40 CEUs)
Seminar Price: $699.00
Please visit our website for the most up to date seminar information at www.orthomassage.net.
If you are keen on expanding your practice beyond pain relief and would like to do more for the chronically ill using Energy touch, then this is definitely for you
The course consists of mainly hands-on practice with CASE-STUDIES What to bring: Linen and a pillow for the table, shorts and loose comfortable clothing and essential oils.
Consult with WOLFGANG LUCKMANN for details ( e-mail: wushebang@comcast.net)
Sign up early! Classes without adequate enrollment will be cancelled (waiting to register is the best way to close a class).
$15 discounts for multiple family members enrolled in classes, "Bring-A-Friend" or for any registration received by June 1! Payments must be made in full before start of the class.
We offer Musical Theatre classes for all ages, including KinderMusik and Dance, Preschool activities and Teen classes. We also offer specialized Home School daytime classes.
Call us at 317-8510 if you have questions or would like to register over the phone!
Summer 2009 Classes:
MUSICAL MOMENTS (Ages 4 & 5)
* Saturdays 9:00am-9:45am, with Kaitlyn and John. July 11 - August 29.
* Working on scenes, songs and dances from "Alice in Wonderland" and "Junglebook".
RISING STARS (Ages 6 to 8)
* Saturdays 10:00am-11:00am, with Kaitlyn and John. July 11 - August 29.
* Working on scenes, songs and dances from "Camp Rock".
MUSICAL THEATRE I (Ages 9 to 12)
* Saturdays 11:00am-12:00pm, with Kaitlyn and John. July 11 - August 29.
* Working on scenes, songs and dances from "Legally Blonde" and "Wicked".
TRIPLE THREAT (Ages 12-18)
* Sundays 6:00pm-7:00pm, with John and Kaitlyn. July 12, 19, Aug 2, 16, 23.
TEEN ACTING / IMPROV (Ages 12 to 17)
* Sundays 7:00pm-8:00pm, with John. July 12, 19, Aug 2, 16, 23.
Summer 2009 Workshops:
Spotlight Summer Camp - Godspell Jr!
* July 27 - August 7, Mondays-Thursdays 6-8:30pm. For grades 4-8.
* Learn to sing, act and dance while working on a full production of "Godspell Jr".
Disney Princess Camp July 6-10
Spend a week bring a Princess! Dress-up, crafts and princess Dances! Show off your new Princess skills at the end for parents.
* 9:30am-11am, Monday thru Friday. Ages 4-8.
* 1pm-2:30pm, Monday thru Friday. Ages 7-10.
Glitter and Glam Camp July 13-17
A week in luxury! Get glammed up. Nails, Hair, clothing. The works! Put on a fashion show at the end for parents.
* 9:30am-11am, Monday thru Friday. Ages 4-8.
* 1pm-2:30pm, Monday thru Friday. Ages 7-10.
American Girl Camp July 20-24
Bring your American Girl Dolls! We'll learn about the different dolls, do scenes and even DANCE with them! Perform for parents at the end of the week.
* 9:30am-11am, Monday thru Friday. Ages 4-8.
* 1pm-2:30pm, Monday thru Friday. Ages 7-10.
Be A Rockstar Camp July 27-31
Learn what it takes to become a Rockstar! Clothing, attitude and the best dance moves! Parents will be treated to a rock concert at the end of the camp!
* 9:30am-11am, Monday thru Friday. Ages 4-8.
* 1pm-2:30pm, Monday thru Friday. Ages 7-10.
WORKSHOPS
Broadway Dance Workshops Monday-Friday 11:15-12:45
Each session will focus on popular broadway dances. Geared toward the specific age group.
* Session 1: July 6-10. Ages 4-8.
* Session 2: July 13-17. Ages 4-8.
* Session 3: July 20-24. Ages 7-11.
* Session 4: July 27-31. Ages 7-11.
Musical Theatre Workshops
Singing, Acting, Dancing and Fun! Learn scenes, songs and dances from popular Broadway musicals. Perform for friends and family at the end of the workshop.
* Session 1: August 11-14, Tuesday-Friday 6-8:30pm. Ages 10-15.
Performing selections from "Legally Blonde" and "Wicked".
* Session 2: August 25-28, Tuesday-Friday 6-8:30pm. Ages 10-15.
Performing selections from "High School Musical" and "Camp Rock".
Audition Workshops
Learn skills, tips and tricks valuable for school and theatre auditions. Each audition ends with a voluntary "mock audition".
* Acting Audition (Ages 10-14), Tue Aug 18, 6-8:30pm
* Musical Theatre Audition (Ages 10-14), Wed Aug 19, 6-8:30
* Musical Theatre Audition (Ages 14-18), Thu Aug 20, 6-8:30
To register download the form at www.SpotlightArts.com
Call 585-334-8973 or email johnb@balloonhq.com for additional details.
Sign up now! Sessions with less than 5 participants will be canceled.
Monday, June 29, 2009, Ridgemont Country Club, 3717 West Ridge Road, Greece
Registration 11:00 a.m. Lunch 11:30 a.m. Shotgun Start 12:30 p.m. Hors D'oeuvres & Cash Bar 5:30 p.m. Dinner 6:30 p.m.
Registration Includes:
Welcome gift, 18 holes of golf, golf cart, unlimited use of driving range and putting greens, lunch, on-course refreshments, hors d'oeuvres, dinner, and prizes
Registration Fees: Individual Golfer $150.00 (paid on or before June 1st). Paid after June 1st: $175.00 Dinner only: $50.00
All education classes are held at The River’s Edge located at 31 Paul Road @ Scottsville Rd, 14624. Attend Tuesday Wednesday Thursday 5:30-10:15.
A map is available on the webpage “Our Facility” at www.EmpireStateAcademy.com
Empire State Academy also offers online NYS 75 Hour Real Estate Licensing Course. Cost starts from $399 without a textbook. Go to our website and click on the Online Courses button for access to all the online options.
Be sure to visit EmpireStateAcademy.com:
• The “DOS Requirements” page to be sure NYS will issue you a license as restrictions apply.
• The “Launch Your Career” page has good information about costs associated with starting your own real estate practice.
Academy Leadership is coming to your area! Join us for an intensive three-day leadership skills training program led by former Corporate Executives and Service Academy Graduates.
Day 1 - Know Yourself
My Leader's Compass
Your Personal Leadership Philosophy
Communicating as a Leader
Day 2 - Know Your People
Review 1st Draft of Personal Leadership Philosophy
Motivating People
Conflict Management
Leader as Coach
Day 3 - Know Your Stuff
Leading Productive Meetings
Managing a Leader's Time
Goal Setting
Action Plans
Graduation
We guarantee your complete satisfaction. If you do not agree that our Leadership Boot Camp has provided more value than your registration fee, just let us know and we will refund your money in full.
$1,995.00 per person
Academy Leadership was formed in 2000 by a group of Service Academy graduates who became successful business leaders following their military careers. Our purpose is to change the world by helping one million people become effective leaders of character. Once you have completed one of our leadership training programs, the leadership skills you develop will have a ripple effect, aiding us to make a tangible difference to hundreds of millions of people worldwide.
If you would like to attend, please contact Ryan@cqcny.com so we can fit you in.
This class will be held at The Rochester School of Fitness located on the corner of Monroe Ave and Allens Creek Rd. in Pitsford NY. For more info and directions please visit www.CQCNY.com
Lightworkers TM 4 Classes offered. STARTING: March 5th 2009 with Michael Neary
Take the first class, (then chose any extra)
each class is from 7-8:30PM, cost $25 each
1. Archangelic Colors - The seven Rays Thursday, March 5th 2009
The seven Rays carry particular qualities and tendencies which are responsible
for the different psychological types.
First Ray – Will&Power - Blue - Archangel Michael,
Second Ray – Love&Wisdom - Yellow - Archangel Jophiel,
Third Ray – Active Intelligence – Pink- Archangel Chamuel,
Fourth Ray – Beauty&Harmony- White – Archangel Gabriel
Fifth Ray – Knowledge&Science – Green – Archangel Raphael,
Sixth Ray – Devotion&Idealism – Red – Archangel Uriel
Seventh Ray – Order&Ritual – Violet – Archangel Zadkiel
2. Metatron Initiations Thursday, March 19th 2009
This is one of the many initiations channeled by Dr Joshua David Stone. Metatron is the Archangel of Reflection. When a human being aligns to the Light geometry, then the person enters the light of energy of Metatron. The essential Metatronic pattern in a 3D form is what is currently called “Flower of Life” as seen engraved on the Osirian Temple in Abydos, Egypt.
3. Archangel Ariel Thursday, March 26th 2009
Guardian of, and Lord of the Earth. Watching over all beings, (human, animal, spirit), ensuring their survival and protection. Referred to the tallest angel so he can see all of creation. Helping us to understand the natural rhythms of the earth and experiencing the magic and healing properties of the trees, flowers, rock and soil. Ariel will help you create peace in the world by starting within your own heart. Archangel Ariel is also refered to as beautiful being of Light.
4. Archangel Raphael Thursday, April 2nd 2009
Raphael is the patron of healers and those in need of healing. This mighty Archangel is able to fearlessly move into what ever area is in need of healing, bringing a host of Angels with him. It does not matter what we are facing, Archangel Raphael is there with us helping us to open our hearts and minds to the healing power of Spirit and the Universe. This Angel works with and through all sorts of healers and counselors, anyone who is willing to open up to the energy of the Higher to bring peace and healing to others. He assists us in being a catalyst for healing while not taking on or empathing what is happening with those we are serving. This allows us to be both clearer channels for the healing process as well as insuring we do not take on the problems or issues of another. Archangel Raphael's name means " God Heals".
About the Teacher: Michael Daniel Neary is a Master Practitioner in Usui Shiki Ryoho (attuned by Master/Teacher Barbara Carlton of The Reiki Healing Center) , holds the rank of Shinpiden (Master) in Usui Reiki Ryoho (attuned by Don Beckett), and a Quan Yin Joray Practitioner/Teacher (attuned by Nivra Kelley-Mackey). Michael is also an ordained minister with Universal Life Church and a member of Templo Messianico Arte do Johrei in Brazil, Meishu-sama Fellowship in Virginia, and Tokyo Reimei Kyokai in Japan, three Johrei/Joray/Jyorei based churches.
Location: The Reiki Healing Center & Lemuria Gift Store, 85 South Union Street, along canal, Spencerport, NY 14559 call 585 349-3400
barbara.carlton@earthlink.net www.TheReikiHealingCenter.com
Cost: Early Registration required, pay: $25 each class
PAY for all 4 classes in advance $95
BARBARA CARLTON IS CERTIFIED AS REIKI PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER OF THE ‘USUI SYSTEM OF NATURAL HEALING’ BY ELSPETH WALKER, EDINBURGH, SCOTLAND. AND WALID GONHEIM, CAIRO, EGYPT. TAUGHT AND CERTIFIED AS KARUNA REIKI® PRACTITIONER/MASTER/TEACHER BY WILLIAM RAND, FOUNDER OF KARUNA REIKI AND DIRECTOR OF ‘THE INTERNATIONAL CENTER FOR REIKI TRAINING’,‘ICRT’ ATTUNED IN GLASTONBURY AND STONEHENGE, ENGLAND. REGISTRATION #84288/83029
BARBARA TEACHES TO THEIR STANDARDS AND GUIDELINES.
BARBARA IS ALSO CERTIFIED AND REGISTERED BY ‘THE INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REIKI PRACTITIONERS ‘ IARP’. USA.
Class Date(s): Saturday, March 7th 2009
Location: The Reiki Healing Center, 85 South Union Street, Spencerport, NY 14559
Time: 9:00AM - 6:00PM
Topics Covered:
The history of Reiki
What is Reiki and how it works
The five Reiki principals
The Chakra system, intro to crystals and colors
Hand positions for self-treatment and treatment of others
Attunement to Reiki level I
Hands-on practice and one Reiki treatment
What You Will Receive:
Reiki I Attunement that activates a 21 day Chakra cleanse
Reiki I Manual
Reiki I Certificate
On going support in your Reiki Training
Fees: $125 Special price. Registration required
All fee must be paid before or on the day of training.
Registration requires a $50 deposit which is non-refundable.
Cost: $125 (Some discounts may apply, please enquire.)
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ROC students choose to take classes from either Rochester Scholars which offers non-credit academic courses structured like traditional college seminars or classes from Taste of College which offers University of Rochester undergraduate classes for credit. Credits are transferable to most college and universities so you can get ahead!
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